net: introduce a netdev feature for UDP GRO forwarding

Introduce a new netdev feature, NETIF_F_GRO_UDP_FWD, to allow user
to turn UDP GRO on and off for forwarding.
Defaults to off to not change current datapath.

Suggested-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexander Lobakin <alobakin@pm.me>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>