s390/mm: add reference counter to gmap structure

Let's use a reference counter mechanism to control the lifetime of
gmap structures. This will be needed for further changes related to
gmap shadows.

Reviewed-by: David Hildenbrand <dahi@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin Schwidefsky <schwidefsky@de.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Borntraeger <borntraeger@de.ibm.com>