net/mlx5e: Refactor IPsec RX tables creation and destruction

Add attribute for IPsec RX creation, so rx_create() can be used by
eswitch in later patch. And move the code for TTC dest
connect/disconnect, which are needed only in NIC mode, to individual
functions.

Signed-off-by: Jianbo Liu <jianbol@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/87478d928479b6a4eee41901204546ea05741815.1690802064.git.leon@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>