ublk: defer disk allocation

Defer allocating the gendisk and request_queue until UBLK_CMD_START_DEV
is called.  This avoids funky life times where a disk is allocated
and then can be added and removed multiple times, which has never been
supported by the block layer.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220721130916.1869719-9-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>