IB/rxe: Update qp state for user query

The method rxe_qp_error() transitions QP to error state
and make sure the QP is drained. It did not though update
the QP state for user's query.

This patch fixes this.

Fixes: 8700e3e7

 ("Soft RoCE driver")
Signed-off-by: Yonatan Cohen <yonatanc@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Moni Shoua <monis@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>