selftests: forwarding: Add a RED test for SW datapath

This test is inspired by the mlxsw RED selftest. It is much simpler to set
up (also because there is no point in testing PRIO / RED encapsulation). It
tests bare RED, ECN and ECN+nodrop modes of operation. On top of that it
tests RED early_drop and mark qevents.

Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>