vhost: flush dev once during vhost_dev_stop

When vhost_work_dev_flush returns all work queued at that time will have
completed. There is then no need to flush after every vhost_poll_stop
call, and we can move the flush call to after the loop that stops the
pollers.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michael.christie@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220517180850.198915-3-michael.christie@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>