l2tp: add tracepoints to l2tp_core.c

Add lifetime event tracing for tunnel and session instances, tracking
tunnel and session registration, deletion, and eventual freeing.

Port the data path sequence number debug logging to use trace points
rather than custom debug macros.

Signed-off-by: Tom Parkin <tparkin@katalix.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>