btrfs: add a cached state to extent_clear_unlock_delalloc

Now that we have the lock_extent tightly coupled with
extent_clear_unlock_delalloc we can add a cached state to
extent_clear_unlock_delalloc and benefit from skipping the extra lookup
when we're doing cow.

Reviewed-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>