posix-timers: Rework cancel retry loops

As a preparatory step for adding the PREEMPT RT specific synchronization
mechanism to wait for a running timer callback, rework the timer cancel
retry loops so they call a common function. This allows trivial
substitution in one place.

Originally-by: Anna-Maria Gleixner <anna-maria@linutronix.de>
Signed-off-by: Thomas Gleixner <tglx@linutronix.de>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20190730223828.874901027@linutronix.de