btrfs: opencode extent_buffer_get

The helper is trivial and we can understand what the atomic_inc on
something named refs does.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Anand Jain <anand.jain@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>