btrfs: check balance of send_in_progress

Warn if the balance goes below zero, which appears to be unlikely
though. Otherwise cleans up the code a bit.

Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>