selftests/bpf: add sockopt test that exercises BPF_F_ALLOW_MULTI

sockopt test that verifies chaining behavior.

v9:
* setsockopt chaining example

v7:
* rework the test to verify cgroup getsockopt chaining

Cc: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Cc: Martin Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>