mctp: Add SIOCMCTP{ALLOC,DROP}TAG ioctls for tag control

This change adds a couple of new ioctls for mctp sockets:
SIOCMCTPALLOCTAG and SIOCMCTPDROPTAG.  These ioctls provide facilities
for explicit allocation / release of tags, overriding the automatic
allocate-on-send/release-on-reply and timeout behaviours. This allows
userspace more control over messages that may not fit a simple
request/response model.

In order to indicate a pre-allocated tag to the sendmsg() syscall, we
introduce a new flag to the struct sockaddr_mctp.smctp_tag value:
MCTP_TAG_PREALLOC.

Additional changes from Jeremy Kerr <jk@codeconstruct.com.au>.

Contains a fix that was:
Reported-by: kernel test robot <lkp@intel.com>

Signed-off-by: Matt Johnston <matt@codeconstruct.com.au>
Signed-off-by: Jeremy Kerr <jk@codeconstruct.com.au>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>