RDMA/erdma: Add hardware statistics support

First, we add a new command to query hardware statistics, and then
implement two functions: ib_device_ops.alloc_hw_port_stats and
ib_device_ops.get_hw_stats to allow rdma tool can get the statistics
of erdma device.

Signed-off-by: Cheng Xu <chengyou@linux.alibaba.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231227084800.99091-3-chengyou@linux.alibaba.com


Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>