tcp: increase tcp_max_syn_backlog max value

tcp_max_syn_backlog default value depends on memory size
and TCP ehash size. Before this patch, the max value
was 2048 [1], which is considered too small nowadays.

Increase it to 4096 to match the recent SOMAXCONN change.

[1] This is with TCP ehash size being capped to 524288 buckets.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Cc: Willy Tarreau <w@1wt.eu>
Cc: Yue Cao <ycao009@ucr.edu>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>