rtnetlink: enable alt_ifname for setlink/newlink

buffer called "ifname" given in function rtnl_dev_get
is always valid when called by setlink/newlink,
but contains only empty string when IFLA_IFNAME is not given. So
IFLA_ALT_IFNAME is always ignored

This patch fixes rtnl_dev_get function with a remove of ifname argument,
and move ifname copy in do_setlink when required.

It extends feature of commit 76c9ac0e,
"net: rtnetlink: add possibility to use alternative names as message
handle""

CC: Jiri Pirko <jiri@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Florent Fourcot <florent.fourcot@wifirst.fr>
Signed-off-by: Brian Baboch <brian.baboch@wifirst.fr>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>