net: annotate data-races around sk->sk_forward_alloc

Every time sk->sk_forward_alloc is read locklessly,
add a READ_ONCE().

Add sk_forward_alloc_add() helper to centralize updates,
to reduce number of WRITE_ONCE().

Fixes: 1da177e4 ("Linux-2.6.12-rc2")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>