NFSv4: Fail I/O if the state recovery fails irrevocably

If state recovery fails with an ESTALE or a ENOENT, then we shouldn't
keep retrying. Instead, mark the stateid as being invalid and
fail the I/O with an EIO error.
For other operations such as POSIX and BSD file locking, truncate
etc, fail with an EBADF to indicate that this file descriptor is no
longer valid.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>