vfio: Test kvm pointer in _vfio_device_get_kvm_safe()

This saves some lines when adding the kvm get logic for the vfio_device
cdev path.

This also renames _vfio_device_get_kvm_safe() to be vfio_device_get_kvm_safe().

Suggested-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Tested-by: Zhenzhong Duan <zhenzhong.duan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Yanting Jiang <yanting.jiang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Yi Liu <yi.l.liu@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230718135551.6592-20-yi.l.liu@intel.com


Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>