md: use new apis to suspend array before mddev_create/destroy_serial_pool

mddev_create/destroy_serial_pool() will be called from several places
where mddev_suspend() will be called later.

Prepare to remove the mddev_suspend() from
mddev_create/destroy_serial_pool().

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231010151958.145896-14-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com