net: dsa: add support for DSA rx offloading via metadata dst

If a metadata dst is present with the type METADATA_HW_PORT_MUX on a dsa cpu
port netdev, assume that it carries the port number and that there is no DSA
tag present in the skb data.

Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Oltean <olteanv@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Florian Fainelli <f.fainelli@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>