blk-mq: move update of tags->rqs to __blk_mq_alloc_request()

No functional difference, it just makes a little more sense to update
the tag map where we actually allocate the tag.

Signed-off-by: Omar Sandoval <osandov@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>
Tested-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>