drm/i915: Move vma lookup to its own lock

Remove the struct_mutex requirement for looking up the vma for an
object.

v2: Highlight how the race for duplicate vma creation is resolved on
reacquiring the lock with a short comment.

Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20190128102356.15037-3-chris@chris-wilson.co.uk