IB/hns: Fix the bug of rdma cm connecting on user mode

Fix bug of modify qp from init to init on user mode. Otherwise,
it will oops when rmda cm established.

Signed-off-by: Lijun Ou <oulijun@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Wei Hu <xavier.huwei@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Salil Mehta <salil.mehta@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>