drm/vmwgfx: Don't refcount command-buffer managed resource lookups during command buffer validation

The typical pattern of these lookups are
-Lookup
-Put on validate list if not already there.
-Unreference
And since we are the exclusive user of the context during lookup time,
we can be sure that the resource will stay alive during the sequence.
So avoid taking a reference during lookup, and also avoid unreferencing
when done.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellstrom <thellstrom@vmware.com>
Reviewed-by: Sinclair Yeh <syeh@vmware.com>