rxrpc: Make the local endpoint hold a ref on a connected call

Make the local endpoint and it's I/O thread hold a reference on a connected
call until that call is disconnected.  Without this, we're reliant on
either the AF_RXRPC socket to hold a ref (which is dropped when the call is
released) or a queued work item to hold a ref (the work item is being
replaced with the I/O thread).

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Marc Dionne <marc.dionne@auristor.com>
cc: linux-afs@lists.infradead.org