ice: Fix link mode handling

The messaging for unsupported module detection is different for
lenient mode and strict mode. Update the code to print the right
messaging for a given link mode.

Media topology conflict is not an error in lenient mode, so return
an error code only if not in lenient mode.

Signed-off-by: Anirudh Venkataramanan <anirudh.venkataramanan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Gurucharan G <gurucharanx.g@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>