dm: improve abnormal bio processing

Read/write/flush are the most common operations, optimize switch in
is_abnormal_io() for those cases. Follows same pattern established in
block perf-wip commit ("block: optimise blk_may_split for normal rw")

Also, push is_abnormal_io() check and blk_queue_split() down from
dm_submit_bio() to dm_split_and_process_bio() and set new
'is_abnormal_io' flag in clone_info. Optimize __split_and_process_bio
and __process_abnormal_io by leveraging ci.is_abnormal_io flag.

Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@kernel.org>