drm: prevent double-(un)registration for connectors

If we're unlucky then the registration from a hotplugged connector
might race with the final registration step on driver load. And since
MST topology discover is asynchronous that's even somewhat likely.

v2: Also update the kerneldoc for @registered!

v3: Review from Chris:
- Improve kerneldoc for late_register/early_unregister callbacks.
- Use mutex_destroy.

Reviewed-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Cc: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Sean Paul <seanpaul@chromium.org>
Reported-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Link: http://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20161218133545.2106-1-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch
(cherry picked from commit e73ab00e)