media: videobuf2: inverse buffer cache_hints flags

It would be less error prone if the default cache hints value
(we kzalloc() structs, so it's zeroed out by default) would be
to "always sync/flush" caches. Inverse and rename cache hints
flags.

Signed-off-by: Sergey Senozhatsky <senozhatsky@chromium.org>
Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hverkuil-cisco@xs4all.nl>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab+huawei@kernel.org>