io_uring: don't recycle provided buffer if punted to async worker

We only really need to recycle the buffer when going async for a file
type that has an indefinite reponse time (eg non-file/bdev). And for
files that to arm poll, the async worker will arm poll anyway and the
buffer will get recycled there.

In that latter case, we're not holding ctx->uring_lock. Ensure we take
the issue_flags into account and acquire it if we need to.

Fixes: b1c62645

 ("io_uring: recycle provided buffers if request goes async")
Reported-by: Stefan Roesch <shr@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>