ipvs: add sync_persist_mode flag

Add sync_persist_mode flag to reduce sync traffic
by syncing only persistent templates.

Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Tested-by: Aleksey Chudov <aleksey.chudov@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Simon Horman <horms@verge.net.au>