io_uring: refactor compat_msghdr import

Add an entry for user pointer to compat_msghdr into io_connect, so it's
explicit that we may use it as this, and removes annoying casts.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/73fd644dea1518f528d3648981cf777ce6e537e9.1618101759.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>