io_uring: used cached copies of sq->dropped and cq->overflow

We currently use the ring values directly, but that can lead to issues
if the application is malicious and changes these values on our behalf.
Created in-kernel cached versions of them, and just overwrite the user
side when we update them. This is similar to how we treat the sq/cq
ring tail/head updates.

Reported-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>