net: increase optmem_max default value

For many years, /proc/sys/net/core/optmem_max default value
on a 64bit kernel has been 20 KB.

Regular usage of TCP tx zerocopy needs a bit more.

Google has used 128KB as the default value for 7 years without
any problem.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Acked-by: Neal Cardwell <ncardwell@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>