RDMA/hns: Set se attribute of sqwqe in hip08

When send flags is IB_SEND_SOLICITED, the se(solicated event)
field of sqwqe will be set.

Signed-off-by: Lijun Ou <oulijun@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Wei Hu (Xavier) <xavier.huwei@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaobo Xu <xushaobo2@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Yixian Liu <liuyixian@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>