nbd: Fix hung on disconnect request if socket is closed before

When userspace closes the socket before sending a disconnect
request, the following I/O requests will be blocked in
wait_for_reconnect() until dead timeout. This will cause the
following disconnect request also hung on blk_mq_quiesce_queue().
That means we have no way to disconnect a nbd device if there
are some I/O requests waiting for reconnecting until dead timeout.
It's not expected. So let's wake up the thread waiting for
reconnecting directly when a disconnect request is sent.

Reported-by: Xu Jianhai <zero.xu@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Xie Yongji <xieyongji@bytedance.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220322080639.142-1-xieyongji@bytedance.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>