fuse: fix wrong ff->iomode state changes from parallel dio write

There is a confusion with fuse_file_uncached_io_{start,end} interface.
These helpers do two things when called from passthrough open()/release():
1. Take/drop negative refcount of fi->iocachectr (inode uncached io mode)
2. State change ff->iomode IOM_NONE <-> IOM_UNCACHED (file uncached open)

The calls from parallel dio write path need to take a reference on
fi->iocachectr, but they should not be changing ff->iomode state, because
in this case, the fi->iocachectr reference does not stick around until file
release().

Factor out helpers fuse_inode_uncached_io_{start,end}, to be used from
parallel dio write path and rename fuse_file_*cached_io_{start,end} helpers
to fuse_file_*cached_io_{open,release} to clarify the difference.

Fixes: 205c1d80 ("fuse: allow parallel dio writes with FUSE_DIRECT_IO_ALLOW_MMAP")
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>