RDMA/rxe: Cleanup MR status and type enums

Eliminate RXE_MR_STATE_ZOMBIE which is not compatible with IBA.
RXE_MR_STATE_INVALID is better.

Replace RXE_MR_TYPE_XXX by IB_MR_TYPE_XXX which covers all the needed
types.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210914164206.19768-3-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>