mtd: rawnand: meson: check buffer length

Meson NAND controller has limited buffer length, so check it before
command execution to avoid length trim. Also check MTD write size on
chip attach.

Signed-off-by: Arseniy Krasnov <AVKrasnov@sberdevices.ru>
Signed-off-by: Miquel Raynal <miquel.raynal@bootlin.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-mtd/20230609112840.2325455-1-AVKrasnov@sberdevices.ru