net/smc: no socket state changes in tasklet context

Several state changes occur during SMC socket closing. Currently
state changes triggered locally occur in process context with
lock_sock() taken while state changes triggered by peer occur in
tasklet context with bh_lock_sock() taken. bh_lock_sock() does not
wait till a lock_sock(() task in process context is finished. This
may lead to races in socket state transitions resulting in dangling
SMC-sockets, or it may lead to duplicate SMC socket freeing.
This patch introduces a closing worker to run all state changes under
lock_sock().

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Richter <tmricht@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Reported-by: Dave Jones <davej@codemonkey.org.uk>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>