net/smc: fix leak of kernel memory to user space

As nlmsg_put() does not clear the memory that is reserved,
it this the caller responsability to make sure all of this
memory will be written, in order to not reveal prior content.

While we are at it, we can provide the socket cookie even
if clsock is not set.

syzbot reported :

BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in __arch_swab32 arch/x86/include/uapi/asm/swab.h:10 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in __fswab32 include/uapi/linux/swab.h:59 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in __swab32p include/uapi/linux/swab.h:179 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in __be32_to_cpup include/uapi/linux/byteorder/little_endian.h:82 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in get_unaligned_be32 include/linux/unaligned/access_ok.h:30 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in ____bpf_skb_load_helper_32 net/core/filter.c:240 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in ____bpf_skb_load_helper_32_no_cache net/core/filter.c:255 [inline]
BUG: KMSAN: uninit-value in bpf_skb_load_helper_32_no_cache+0x14a/0x390 ne...