block: decouple REQ_OP_SECURE_ERASE from REQ_OP_DISCARD

Secure erase is a very different operation from discard in that it is
a data integrity operation vs hint.  Fully split the limits and helper
infrastructure to make the separation more clear.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Christoph Böhmwalder <christoph.boehmwalder@linbit.com> [drbd]
Acked-by: Ryusuke Konishi <konishi.ryusuke@gmail.com> [nifs2]
Acked-by: Jaegeuk Kim <jaegeuk@kernel.org> [f2fs]
Acked-by: Coly Li <colyli@suse.de> [bcache]
Acked-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com> [btrfs]
Acked-by: Chao Yu <chao@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220415045258.199825-27-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>