net: hns3: refine the flow director handle

In order to be compatible with aRFS rules, this patch adds
spin_lock for flow director rule adding, deleting, querying,
and packages the rule configuration.

Signed-off-by: Jian Shen <shenjian15@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Huazhong Tan <tanhuazhong@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>