net/smc: add SMC-D support in af_smc

This patch ties together the previous SMC-D patches. It adds support for
SMC-D to the listen and connect functions and, thus, enables SMC-D
support in the SMC code. If a connection supports both SMC-R and SMC-D,
SMC-D is preferred.

Signed-off-by: Hans Wippel <hwippel@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Suggested-by: Thomas Richter <tmricht@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>