bridge: Add per-{Port, VLAN} neighbor suppression data path support

When the bridge is not VLAN-aware (i.e., VLAN ID is 0), determine if
neighbor suppression is enabled on a given bridge port solely based on
the existing 'BR_NEIGH_SUPPRESS' flag.

Otherwise, if the bridge is VLAN-aware, first check if per-{Port, VLAN}
neighbor suppression is enabled on the given bridge port using the
'BR_NEIGH_VLAN_SUPPRESS' flag. If so, look up the VLAN and check whether
it has neighbor suppression enabled based on the per-VLAN
'BR_VLFLAG_NEIGH_SUPPRESS_ENABLED' flag.

If the bridge is VLAN-aware, but the bridge port does not have
per-{Port, VLAN} neighbor suppression enabled, then fallback to
determine neighbor suppression based on the 'BR_NEIGH_SUPPRESS' flag.

Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>