io_uring: unify files and task cancel

Now __io_uring_cancel() and __io_uring_files_cancel() are very similar
and mostly differ by how we count requests, merge them and allow
tctx_inflight() to handle counting.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1a5986a97df4dc1378f3fe0ca1eb483dbcf42112.1618101759.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>