block: add a sb_open_mode helper

Add a helper to return the open flags for blkdev_get_by* for passed in
super block flags instead of open coding the logic in many places.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Acked-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230608110258.189493-17-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>