IB/mlx4: Add CM paravirtualization

In CM para-virtualization:

1. Incoming requests are steered to the correct vHCA according to the
   embedded GID.
2. Communication IDs on outgoing requests are replaced by a globally
   unique ID, generated by the PPF, since there is no synchronization
   of ID generation between guests (and so these IDs are not
   guaranteed to be globally unique).  The guest's comm ID is stored,
   and is returned to the response MAD when it arrives.

Signed-off-by: Amir Vadai <amirv@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Jack Morgenstein <jackm@dev.mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>